How to Have a Romantic Getaway in Sonoma County

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  • by DEVIN PARR
  • on JANUARY 27, 2026
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Lodging

How to Have a Romantic Getaway in Sonoma County

By Devin Parr January 27, 2026

If date night is starting to look like bingeing on Netflix over take-out before falling asleep on the couch lately, it may be time to plan a romantic getaway with your significant other. With world-class wines, scrumptious eats, zen-worthy spas, and well-appointed hotels, all in a spectacular Wine Country setting, Sonoma County is the perfect place to reconnect with your partner. Plus at only an hour north of San Francisco, it’s an easy escape for a week or a weekend.

To make it even more effortless for you, we’ve compiled a round-up of our top places for couples to stay, eat, sip, and play, so get planning that long overdue romantic getaway. Your love life will thank us later.

Where to Stay

Olea Hotel

Olea Hotel
Lobby at Olea Hotel, Photo courtesy of Olea Hotel

The boutique Olea Hotel is set among oak and olive trees, offering everything you and your significant other will need in a home base for your romantic getaway. Start your day with a complimentary multi-course breakfast and end it cozying up with a glass of wine by the outdoor fire pit, or taking a cleansing dip in the pool, heated year-round and lit for a romantic evening swim.

Visit: 5131 Warm Springs Road, Glen Ellen, CA 95442
Contact: (707) 996-5131

WineCountry Perks: To receive a $25 spa credit and complimentary wine tasting passes, just use code ‘WINECOUNTRY’ when booking.

Kenwood Inn & Spa

Kenwood Vineyards
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The very location of the Kenwood Inn & Spa—nestled in Sonoma Wine Country’s “Valley of the Moon” —says romantic getaway. With only 29 rooms and suites, each with its own entrance, fireplace, and featherbed, private terrace or balcony, couples will find pure relaxation after a day exploring Wine Country; that is, if they choose to leave the room at all.

Visit: 10400 Sonoma Highway, Kenwood, CA 95452
Contact: (707) 833-1293

Gaige House

Photos courtesy of Gaige House

Gaige House, a tranquil hideaway set along Calabasas Creek in Glen Ellen, promises guests deep relaxation, meditation, and reflection. Modern Asian accents influence the 23-room hotel’s amenities, including meditation areas, private karesansui Zen rock gardens, deep granite soaking tubs, and calming fountains, making a stay here truly feel like a vacation away from it all.

Visit: 13540 Arnold Drive, Glen Ellen, CA 95442
Contact: (707) 935-0237

Where to Sip

Jordan Vineyard & Winery

Jordan Winery
Photo courtesy of Jordan Winery

Let Jordan Vineyard & Winery be the anchor for your romantic getaway in Sonoma County. This family-owned estate is centered around their French-inspired tasting room and produces world-renowned Chardonnay and Cabernet Sauvignon wines. One experience that’s ideal for couples is their Caviar Tasting at Vista Point, featuring 360° views of mountain peaks and grapevines. Offered throughout Valentine’s Day weekend (February 13-15, 2026), indulge in Tsar Nicoulai caviar, blinis, and accoutrements that are expertly paired with Jordan bubbles.

Visit: 1474 Alexander Valley Road, Healdsburg, CA 95448
Contact: (707) 431-5250

Coursey Graves Estate Winery

Photos courtesy of Coursey Graves

One of the most beautiful wineries in Sonoma is Coursey Graves, where sprawling gardens were modeled after Claude Monet’s at Giverny. If that isn’t reason enough to plan a date here, maybe the winery’s views, 1,500 feet above the valley, will entice you. Book the Private Vista Experience for a truly intimate tasting with a dedicated host, complete with a charcuterie board and Bordeaux-inspired blends.

Visit: 6860 Serenity Way, Santa Rosa, CA 95404
Contact: (707) 867-1888

Landmark Vineyards

Landmark Vineyards
Photo courtesy of Landmark Vineyards

Nestled in the foothills of the Mayacamas Mountains in Sonoma Valley, Landmark offers guests the chance to learn about the different expressions of Sonoma Chardonnay and Pinot Noir in a gorgeous setting. Take in any of the winery’s different tasting experiences, from an insider’s production tour and tasting, cheese and charcuterie pairings, and an intimate 360-degree vineyard view tower tasting.

Visit: 101 Adobe Canyon Road, Kenwood, CA 95452
Contact: (707) 833-0053

Where to Eat

J Vineyards & Winery

Photos courtesy of J Vineyards & Winery

While you might not expect a winery to have one of the best culinary experiences in Sonoma, J Vineyards delivers on both vino and delicious nibbles. Sweethearts in search of unforgettable options should book the Bubble Room Tasting, which will pair J Vineyards’ delicious sparkling wines with a five-course seasonal menu that changes every six to eight weeks, so you’re never bored.

Visit: 11447 Old Redwood Highway, Healdsburg, CA 95448
Contact: (707) 431-5430

the girl and the fig

the girl and the fig
Photo curtesy of the girl and the fig

Featuring a seasonal, Provençal-inspired menu, house-made award-winning charcuterie, local artisan cheese, an outdoor patio, and an antique bar, you are bound to have the perfect date night at the girl and the fig. Says one fan of the romantic, French-style setting, “You forget that you’re in Sonoma!”

Visit: 110 West Spain Street, Sonoma, CA 95476
Contact: (707) 938-3634

SingleThread Restaurant

SingleThread Restaurant in Healdsburg, CA
Photo courtesy of SingleThread Restaurant

If you are celebrating a milestone anniversary or are simply looking to add the crown jewel to your romantic getaway, booking a reservation at this Three Michelin Star restaurant in Healdsburg is a must. At SingleThread, you’ll dine on an 11-course, seasonally-inspired tasting menu, starting with canapés on the delightful rooftop garden, and culminating in a bespoke hospitality experience in the main dining room that incorporates California-driven wine pairing options as well as unique non-alcoholic pairings.

Visit:  131 North Street, Healdsburg, CA 95448
Contact: (707) 723-4646

What to Do

Sonoma Valley Bike Tours

Sonoma Valley Bike Tours
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While driving is an easy way to explore Sonoma Valley and its surrounding vineyards, there’s just something extra fun (and romantic) about cruising around on two wheels. With a guided tour with Sonoma Valley Bike Tours, you’ll do just that as you bike along scenic roads, passing historic wineries and vineyards along the way. Of course, the experience wouldn’t be complete without a picnic lunch, as well as stops for wine tastings throughout the day. E-bikes are also available, for a more user-friendly and leisurely experience.

Visit: 1254 Broadway, Sonoma, CA 95476
Contact: (707) 938-2080

Sonoma Zipline Adventures

Sonoma Zipline Adventures
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Sonoma may be known for its laid-back vibe, but a little adrenaline rush never hurt anyone. Grab your partner for a breathtaking bucket-list adventure through the famous California Coastal Redwoods with Sonoma Zipline Adventures. These guided eco-experiences are offered through various courses, from the “Classic” to the “Challenger,” and feature zip lines, sky bridges, and other unique, natural elements.

Insider Tip: If your idea of a romantic getaway includes the outdoors, book the overnight Treehouse Adventure, which includes a stay in your very own tree house, as well as an eco tour with fourteen ziplines and eight sky bridges, a guided hike, and gourmet dinner and breakfast.

Visit: 6250 Bohemian Highway, Occidental, CA 95465
Contact: (888) 494-7868

Conclusion

Whether you’re surprising your Valentine with a picture-perfect romantic weekend in Sonoma Valley, or you’re simply making plans for a future anniversary vacation, Sonoma County makes it easy to experience the romance of Wine Country any time of year.